Pamela Weathers Wiseman

January 18, 1958 - February 28, 2026

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First Presbyterian Church - Fort Stockton

202 N. Oklahoma Street

Fort Stockton, Texas 79735

(432) 336-3346 |

Friday 3/13, 11:00 am

Pamela Elaine Weathers Wiseman, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on February 28, 2026, in Midland, Texas. A woman of grace, intelligence, and deep devotion to her family, Pam leaves behind a legacy of love that spans generations and has touched countless lives.

Born in Coleman, Texas, on January 18, 1958, to Avalee and Bill Weathers, Pam was the fourth of five daughters—a “middle sister” who brought a unique spark to the Weathers household. In 1971, her family moved to Fort Stockton, where she would finish high school.

Pam loved being a member of the choir and involving herself in other extracurricular activities. A proud honors graduate of Fort Stockton High School in 1976, Pam went on to earn her bachelor’s degree in business administration from the University of Houston. During her time there, she served as the head resident assistant for her dorm, and as secretary to Guy V. Lewis, head coach of the famous “Phi Slama Jama” basketball team. She cheered for her Cougars every chance she had and carried that school pride with her throughout her life.

Pam and Douglas “Dubby” Wiseman had been close friends while growing up in Fort Stockton, attending school and church activities together. After beginning their professional lives, their paths crossed again in 1985. On March 7, 1987, they officially began their life together in marriage. Pam joined Dubby in Midland, where they built a beautiful life and raised their two children, Kalli and Cutter.

All her professional career was dedicated to serving others as a Certified Financial Planner. Known for her sharp mind and her genuine care for her clients, Pam was a trusted advisor and a respected figure in the financial planning community.

Beyond her professional success, she was a faithful soccer Mom and Coach and served at different times as PTA president and treasurer for Fannin Elementary. She was also a devoted animal rescuer, which usually meant a house full of cats and the occasional dog—much to her children’s delight.

However, Pam’s greatest joy and true “wealth” was found in her family. She was the cornerstone of her home and a doting “Mimi” to her five grandchildren. She was always ready to support her family in any way she could—whether that meant driving her children all over the state for soccer games or helping finish science projects the night before they were due, she did it all. No matter what she was doing, she did so with a warmth that made everyone feel at home.

Pam was preceded in death by her parents, Avalee and Bill Weathers, and her sisters, Linda Weathers Evans and Janice Weathers Bartz.

Her memory will be cherished and lovingly kept alive by her devoted husband, Dubby Wiseman; her children, Kalli Martin (Ben) and Cutter Wiseman (Alyssa), her pride and joy; her adored grandchildren, Audrey and Hailey Martin, and Nolan, Harper, and Leah Wiseman; her sisters, Karen Franco and Patricia Butler; and numerous nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

The family invites all who loved Pam to attend A Witness to the Resurrection, held at First Presbyterian Church in Fort Stockton, Texas on Friday, March 13, at 11:00 AM. Following the service, please join the family for lunch at the church to share stories and celebrate Pam’s remarkable life.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Pam’s honor to Permian Basin Animal Advocates. Contributions may be made online at https://pbanimaladvocates.com/donate .

“Life is a sacred fusion of sorrow and celebration. All of it is holy.”

Arrangements are under the direction of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home & Crematory of Midland. Online condolences may be made at www.npwelch.com.

First Presbyterian Church - Fort Stockton

202 N. Oklahoma Street

Fort Stockton, Texas 79735

(432) 336-3346 | Map

Friday 3/13, 11:00 am

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Dub: This breaks my heart & I am sorry. The years have really flown since we were on Basin Rig 5 together. But I have thought about you from time to time. I pray the Holy Spirit will come upon all of you w/the comfort & love of the Father. And may your forever family surround you in this most difficult time. Be well, my friend. Kenneth Garrett

This morning I was informed by fellow classmate Steve Williams that Pam had passed away. At that very moment, the world became a bit colder and more foreign to me. I doubt if that feeling will ever go away. At least, in this lifetime. I wished I had known earlier, as most anything would not have kept me from coming to pay my respects. She was an absolutely wonderful human being, showing such traits even when we were in high school. Pam seemed to be involved in everything those days, including being one of our cheerleaders. But most of all, she had a kind heart and a kind word for everyone. Including me, and I was a basic nobody while in high school. Decades later, after my first book was published, Pam was one of the first from our graduating class to contact me. About a year later, she came to Alpine with some of our other classmates and we all had a good visit. Since then, she would make contact on occasion and was always leaving ‘likes’ concerning my essays. I suppose that will not happen anymore, and again the world seems worse off without them. Pam, I am going to miss your presence so much. But one day, God willing and I manage to meet the mark, I shall see you again. My heartfelt condolences and prayers to her family and many, many friends. As I know I am far from being the only one feeling this way. Ben H. English Alpine, Texas

Pam, I will miss you dearly. Had great times with you, Dubby and Del Mack… still remember driving home from Dallas Cowboy game, snowing and Del Mack actually put finger indentions on the steering wheel of your car since we voted him to be the driver. I love you, Cherl

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Oh my dear beautiful Pammy. I see your photo and my brain knows that it is your obituary but, my heart can’t accept it. The thought of never hearing your voice again is so painful. We had so many memories that I will hold on to forever. You were smart, loving and full of empathy for others. It didn’t matter who it was. If anyone (I do mean ANYONE) needed anything, you were there no matter what the need was you jumped in with both feet. I will never forget all the times that you called and just listened to me cry when Bryan died. You were such an example of what friendship means. I will forever carry you in my heart and will always wish that I could say “I love you” and hear you say it back just one more time.

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Dub and Family, we are so very sorry to learn of Pam’s passing. We have very fond memories with all of you at the lake. Home made ice cream, fishing, and Pam’s sweet smile. May God grant you peace and comfort during such a difficult time. Love, Earl, Karen, Evan, Courtney, Colton, and Brooke

Pam, Your long, tough fight is over. Rest in peace. Scott Campbell

We at Trinity Baptist Church, Big Spring, Texas want you to know that prayers are being lifted for your family. May the God of all comfort keep your hearts and minds at this time. Please know that we are here to help you through your grief. We offer our GriefShare ministry several times throughout the year. Please visit our website tbcbigspring.com/serve/grief-share if you are local; or visit Griefshare.org to find grief ministries.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.