James Shellenberger, 39, of Midland, passed away Monday, October 20, 2008. The family will receive friends from 6:00pm to 8:00pm, Thursday, October 23, 2008 at the funeral home. Funeral services will be held at 10:00am, Friday, October 24, 2008 at Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home Chapel with Rev. Donald E. Reid, officiating. Interment will followContinue Reading
Beth (Barnard) Conaway
left a message on November 30, -0001:
I was so shocked and saddened to open the Gyp Hill Premiere and read of James's death. I remember him as always being so much fun, and always so happy, bringing happiness to others with his smile and laughter. I hadn't seen James in years, but he will always be remembered by the class of '87 who knew and loved him. The family will be in my prayers.
Kevin Wingate
left a message on November 30, -0001:
I will always remember riding the bus and hanging out with James. I hadn't seen him in a while but can still hear him laugh and know that he is brightening someone else's day now. God shall grant you peace and strength to make it through your loss.
Jason and Amanda Golightley
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Mandi, we are truly sorry that James had to pass. We had gotten to know him more and more this year. Every time I think about him it makes me sad to know he is no longer here but, I also have to smile because I start to recall the stories he told us. He would really "get into" his stories. I was telling him how my emotions got a hold of me and I could not say my vows, well I didn't feel so bad when James told me he did not do so well either. And one of the best stories that he would also have to start laughing at when he told it was the story of when he was in bed and Mandi told their son to only give James a medication that he needed for pain at certain time intervals. Well he states his son listened to Mandi too well, as he was telling his son he needed some of the medication for the pain, practically pleading with him but, his son said NO mom said you can have some only every so many hours, so James had to wait. He was a great guy and he would share with us how much he loved you and your son. I will miss him and it doesn't seem fair that he is gone but, he is in a much better place then we are.
Trish Biver
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Wanda & Vernon, James was one of the most giving and caring people I have had the privilege to meet. He was a true gentleman, in a time when there are very few of those. He was a tribute to your wonderful family values. he was my best friend when I badly needed one. He will live in my heart forever. My prayers are with all of your family.
Barbara Cuddy (jackson)
left a message on November 30, -0001:
I am truely sorry for the loss of your husband. I graduated with James and remember him as a sweet young man. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family.... God Bless.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bruce & Frances Heflin
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Vernon & Wanda Words are never enough, but we do want you to know you are in our hearts and prayers. James always had a smile everytime we saw him that we will always remember. GOD bless you and keep you. Bruce and Frances Heflin
Phyllis Sturgeon
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Mandi and Nathan, I just wanted to let you know that both of you are in our prayers and thoughts. May God Comfort You! You will have memories of Jim but we know you both will miss Jim very much . Let God wrap his loving arms around you both and HE will help you through this. God Bless You Both! I send our thoughts and prayers. Love, Warren, Phyllis and Families
Phyllis Sturgeon
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Dear Wanda, Vernon & Families, You are all in our prayers and thoughts. May God Comfort You during this time. Jim was a special person and very thoughtful of other people. He always had a joke or a funny story to tell. I know he will be missed by a lot of people but memories will remain. Would like to of come down but couldn't. Warren and Tony are at a Aerial Sprayers convention getting their hours for renewal. May God Bless All Of You! Love You All, Warren & Phyllis Sturgeon and families
Sharon Dyer
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Family, I have not known James for very long, but in the too short time that I did, I grew to enjoy being around him and laughing with him. We even shared a few sad times. James will be truly missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with each one of you. We will see James again some day. Sharon Dyer Human Resources Stewart and Stevenson
JoNell Franklin
left a message on November 30, -0001:
To (Vernon and Wanda) Mom and Dad - James became one of our family from the minute he walked into "NeeNa's" house. He truly fit in. He always had a funny story and he always fell asleep sitting in a chair on Sunday afternoons! I will always remember how thoughtful he was, he'd always come out and help carry food & things in from my car on holidays and take out the trash for my mom. You did a wonderful job raising him, and though we are all hurting, we know that he is at peace. May God give you peace. JoNell Franklin
Betty Paasch
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Vernon, Wanda and family, We are so sorry to hear about James, it is devastating to me. I'm so glad he came to Lacy's wedding and we got to see him for the last time. We will see him again in Heaven one day when it's our time. I remember a lot of funny times with him, that's what we need to focus on to get all of us through this. God is with all of us and is comforting us, He will neer leave us in difficult times like this. We love you guys, Larry and Betty
Gina Woods
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Dear Vernon, Wanda and family, I was devistated hearing about James accident. Teena called me yesterday and I know I haven't seen him in years but there is always a special connection when you spend as much time with James as I did as a kid. I will never forget that I learned to ride his bicycle down at Aunt Paulines. I think he spent most of his time helping me in so Aunt Pauline could doctor my ouches with her red medicine. It burned like crazy but James would say lets try it again. I would have probably never learned to ride a bike if it hadn't been for him. Then we spent a lot of summers riding all over town and skating at the hardware. or going to Midges or Harolds for a coke and candy. Break time at school always meant a trip to Midges too. We played football, softball and a lot of volleyball over the years. Went to Sunday school together and attended a lot of VBS. Just know that I feel your pain and I do know we will see each other again in heaven what a blessed day. He video'd my wedding and I still remember him standing in the front of the church with is jeans tucked in his boots and then going to the reception and getting comments from everyone. I still treasure that tape. God is so good and sometimes it is hard to understand why things happen but all things work together for good to those that love the Lord and are called according to his purpose. I know James had a purpose in this life and I know the Lord will help us to recall our memories during this time. May God give you all a special hug at this time like only he can do. Love Gina Myers Woods
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Beth (Barnard) Conaway
left a message on November 30, -0001:
I was so shocked and saddened to open the Gyp Hill Premiere and read of James's death. I remember him as always being so much fun, and always so happy, bringing happiness to others with his smile and laughter. I hadn't seen James in years, but he will always be remembered by the class of '87 who knew and loved him. The family will be in my prayers.
Kevin Wingate
left a message on November 30, -0001:
I will always remember riding the bus and hanging out with James. I hadn't seen him in a while but can still hear him laugh and know that he is brightening someone else's day now. God shall grant you peace and strength to make it through your loss.
Jason and Amanda Golightley
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Mandi, we are truly sorry that James had to pass. We had gotten to know him more and more this year. Every time I think about him it makes me sad to know he is no longer here but, I also have to smile because I start to recall the stories he told us. He would really "get into" his stories. I was telling him how my emotions got a hold of me and I could not say my vows, well I didn't feel so bad when James told me he did not do so well either. And one of the best stories that he would also have to start laughing at when he told it was the story of when he was in bed and Mandi told their son to only give James a medication that he needed for pain at certain time intervals. Well he states his son listened to Mandi too well, as he was telling his son he needed some of the medication for the pain, practically pleading with him but, his son said NO mom said you can have some only every so many hours, so James had to wait. He was a great guy and he would share with us how much he loved you and your son. I will miss him and it doesn't seem fair that he is gone but, he is in a much better place then we are.
Trish Biver
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Wanda & Vernon, James was one of the most giving and caring people I have had the privilege to meet. He was a true gentleman, in a time when there are very few of those. He was a tribute to your wonderful family values. he was my best friend when I badly needed one. He will live in my heart forever. My prayers are with all of your family.
Barbara Cuddy (jackson)
left a message on November 30, -0001:
I am truely sorry for the loss of your husband. I graduated with James and remember him as a sweet young man. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family.... God Bless.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bruce & Frances Heflin
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Vernon & Wanda Words are never enough, but we do want you to know you are in our hearts and prayers. James always had a smile everytime we saw him that we will always remember. GOD bless you and keep you. Bruce and Frances Heflin
Phyllis Sturgeon
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Mandi and Nathan, I just wanted to let you know that both of you are in our prayers and thoughts. May God Comfort You! You will have memories of Jim but we know you both will miss Jim very much . Let God wrap his loving arms around you both and HE will help you through this. God Bless You Both! I send our thoughts and prayers. Love, Warren, Phyllis and Families
Phyllis Sturgeon
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Dear Wanda, Vernon & Families, You are all in our prayers and thoughts. May God Comfort You during this time. Jim was a special person and very thoughtful of other people. He always had a joke or a funny story to tell. I know he will be missed by a lot of people but memories will remain. Would like to of come down but couldn't. Warren and Tony are at a Aerial Sprayers convention getting their hours for renewal. May God Bless All Of You! Love You All, Warren & Phyllis Sturgeon and families
Sharon Dyer
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Family, I have not known James for very long, but in the too short time that I did, I grew to enjoy being around him and laughing with him. We even shared a few sad times. James will be truly missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with each one of you. We will see James again some day. Sharon Dyer Human Resources Stewart and Stevenson
JoNell Franklin
left a message on November 30, -0001:
To (Vernon and Wanda) Mom and Dad - James became one of our family from the minute he walked into "NeeNa's" house. He truly fit in. He always had a funny story and he always fell asleep sitting in a chair on Sunday afternoons! I will always remember how thoughtful he was, he'd always come out and help carry food & things in from my car on holidays and take out the trash for my mom. You did a wonderful job raising him, and though we are all hurting, we know that he is at peace. May God give you peace. JoNell Franklin
Betty Paasch
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Vernon, Wanda and family, We are so sorry to hear about James, it is devastating to me. I'm so glad he came to Lacy's wedding and we got to see him for the last time. We will see him again in Heaven one day when it's our time. I remember a lot of funny times with him, that's what we need to focus on to get all of us through this. God is with all of us and is comforting us, He will neer leave us in difficult times like this. We love you guys, Larry and Betty
Gina Woods
left a message on November 30, -0001:
Dear Vernon, Wanda and family, I was devistated hearing about James accident. Teena called me yesterday and I know I haven't seen him in years but there is always a special connection when you spend as much time with James as I did as a kid. I will never forget that I learned to ride his bicycle down at Aunt Paulines. I think he spent most of his time helping me in so Aunt Pauline could doctor my ouches with her red medicine. It burned like crazy but James would say lets try it again. I would have probably never learned to ride a bike if it hadn't been for him. Then we spent a lot of summers riding all over town and skating at the hardware. or going to Midges or Harolds for a coke and candy. Break time at school always meant a trip to Midges too. We played football, softball and a lot of volleyball over the years. Went to Sunday school together and attended a lot of VBS. Just know that I feel your pain and I do know we will see each other again in heaven what a blessed day. He video'd my wedding and I still remember him standing in the front of the church with is jeans tucked in his boots and then going to the reception and getting comments from everyone. I still treasure that tape. God is so good and sometimes it is hard to understand why things happen but all things work together for good to those that love the Lord and are called according to his purpose. I know James had a purpose in this life and I know the Lord will help us to recall our memories during this time. May God give you all a special hug at this time like only he can do. Love Gina Myers Woods
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