Ryan Liam Fite

August 14, 2001 - December 4, 2020

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Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home - Big Spring

Tuesday 12/8

Mt. Olive Memorial Park - Big Spring

Wednesday 12/9, 2:00 pm

Ryan Fite was 19 years old. On December 4th , 2020 everything changed. He became a cherished memory which will never vanish. Instead of a light fading, he became a burning flare of warmth felt by all. Ryan’s reach stretched far beyond the walls of his home. Beyond his enormous circle of friends. Past the limits of love. He left an impression on countless people. He will never be forgotten by those who knew him, and they will never not feel the impact he left and still has on them.

Ryan was born in Wichita Falls, TX on August 14th, 2001. Before his first year, he and his father, James moved to Big Spring, TX to be closer to family. Later in life, his father would introduce him to Amanda, who he would eventually refer to as “my mom” to people. Ryan also met 3-year-old Alyssa who would latch onto him as his little sister. James and Amanda married, and a family of 4 was formed.

He attended Big Spring High where band was life. He played percussion and loved everything about it. He graduated in 2019, and even after high school, would go to any and everything where he could watch his successors in band play.

Ryan had several families besides James, Amanda, and Alyssa. He was welcomed in many of his friend’s homes, where he would take off to for sometimes days. No one worried because he was always with “family” no matter where he was. Ryan had no problem saying, “I love you” and following through by showing that love. If he knew you, then you were genuinely cared about. Everything about Ryan… his heart, his impact, his reach… is infinite. Because of that, Ryan will not be forgotten. Instead, he will be forever.

Survivors include his parents, James and Amanda Fite; his sister Alyssa Wellner; a brother Matthew Carrasco; grandparents Don and Ann Fite, Lisa Kennedy, Edward Carrasco; and many other loving family members and even more friends.

Ryan was preceded in death by his birth mother, Brianne Carrasco.

Ryan will lie in state Tuesday, December 8, 2020 from 11AM to 9PM at Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home. A graveside service will be held Wednesday, December 9, 2020 at 2:00PM at Mt. Olive Cemetery.

Arrangements are under the direction of Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home and Crematory. Online condolences may be made at www.npwelch.com.
The family asks memorial donations be made to the Ryan Fite Scholarship Fund for the Big Spring High School Band.

Donations may be mailed to: Big Spring HS Band Boosters
Attn: Sonya Bravo
707 East 11th Place
Big Spring, TX 77920

Donations can also be mailed or made in person:
Big Spring Educators Federal Credit Union
1110 Benton
Big Spring, TX 79720

Please make checks payable to:
Big Spring High School Band Boosters for Ryan Fite Scholarship Fund

Nalley-Pickle & Welch Funeral Home - Big Spring

Tuesday 12/8

Mt. Olive Memorial Park - Big Spring

Wednesday 12/9, 2:00 pm

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My families thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. He was such an amazing kid and turned out to be an amazing young man. ❤️ The Leggett Family

James, I am sorry for your loss. I pray your family will find strength together in this tough time.

We didn’t know Ryan, but we knew James. There are no words that can alleviate the grief and suffering that is happening. We are both so sorry for your loss.

Our Condolences. There are no words to ease your pain but to let you know we are praying for you that some how God can give you Peace that only He knows how.

Ryan was such a sweetheart. I was in band with him over the course of about 6 years. He was a great person who always showed kindness to me and was always so himself. I was never very close with him, but he was truly one of the kindest people I have ever met.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Agustin Gaitan jr lit a candle

Ryan was really, truly, an amazing friend. I have so many stories about the times that he made me feel actually wanted which isn’t always easy to come by. He always seemed to have such a difficult time saying goodbye and honestly? It was really an honor that he actually wanted to hang out with me that much. Not only was he just an amazing friend, he basically got me my old job. He let my friends and I into the theatre for a movie and suddenly I was offered an interview. Working with him was even more amazing than just being his classmate since he always make the work day so fun. When he quit, he left me a really sweet little note saying how much fun he had working with me, and I still carry it in my wallet to this day. Each Christmas he gave amazing gifts and I’m devastated that I won’t be able to try to pay him back this year. Last year he gave me a full blown lightsaber! So expensive right? I barely even felt like I deserved such a gift and he gave it to me without a second thought, i am just so honored that he thought I was that important. When he took my dads class, he left a note at the end of the year telling him that he “raised his daughter right” and while I probably shouldn’t have seen it, I’m so glad that I got the chance to read it. He was just such a special guy and it hurts so much that I can’t just text him and ask if we can hang out anymore. He had one of the most unique senses of humor I’ve ever seen and it made it all the more fun to hang out with him. So thank you, Ryan’s parents, for raising him right.
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I do not know what words fit in this time. I do have words to comfort Ryan’s family. I just say, “It is too soon” to complete his duty in the World. He was quiet and smile student in my class. He will be missed but not be forgotten. My deepest sympathy and prayers to Ryan’s family.

I got the pleasure of being on the BSHS drumline when Ryan was a freshman. I saw a good kid with a great talent. He always had a smile on his face, and always would always be able to make you laugh. He had a genuinely sweet soul and never knew an enemy. If he met you once, he knew you as a friend. Rest well Ryan, till we meet again.

Dude. When I lived in big spring. You were my best friend. Even tho you were so much older than me. I looked up to you so much. I thought you were the coolest person ever, you were good at video games, you were nerdy. Dude I thought you were amazing. We hung out so much too. And when I moved you were the first person I said goodbye too. Ik since I moved we haven’t talked as much but we were still close. I’ll miss you dude. Rest In Peace

I am so sorry for your loss! May God hold you in his arms thru this tough time!

There are not words that could ever comfort your family. Please know that my heart is thinking about and praying for each person, family, friend effected by your passing. Sending love and hugs.

Ryan was an amazing young man and I am proud to be able to have called him my friend. As a manager, you are not supposed to have favorite employees, but Ryan was truly my favorite. Every shift we worked together at Cinemark was full of laughter, fun, and joy. That was thanks to Ryan. His caring spirit could brighten up any room, and his humor was never ending. My heart goes out to his family, and his friends. The memories he has left for those who were touched by his presence in their lives will never be forgotten, myself included. Rest In Peace brother.

You are loved . You will be missed. The world was better for your presence. The tragedy of your passing will forever be overshadowed by the love and joy you unselfishly shared to those around you . I love you mimi , I love you more baby were the our last parting words . I will always hold them close. together, with the memory of your sweet smile , that will be enough. It will sustain me until we meet again.

James and Family, Our heart breaks for you and please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

You will be missed dearly good friend.

James and Amanda. Ann and Don. I am so sorry for the grief and pain of loss you are experiencing right now. Words seem so inadequate... just know you are in my prayers and my heart. I love you all!

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Anonymous lit a candle

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Dillon, Cash & Sadie Sorrells lit a candle

Ryan was nothing short of amazing. I am thinking, praying, and crying with you all during this most terrible time. He was literally, the worlds best nephew and I am so blessed to have known him, and truly blessed to have been a small part of his life. I'm here when needed. I love you all.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I am so sad for you. You have had to deal with so much in life. God bless you and give you peace.

Dear Fite family, We are so sorry to hear about Ryan. We did not know him personally but he did excellent work with a very nice smile every time he did plumbing in our home. We understand that just kind words from strangers cannot even begin to help ease the pain right now but we did want to let you know that we will be lifting your family up in prayer.

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Oskar Milla lit a candle

Mis condolencias a la familia, y mucha paz en este momento difícil. Mis bendiciones al joven Maestro Pokemon. Saludos desde Chile.

Your mother was my BEST friend... If she were still around, you may have been like a son to me. I wish I could've gotten the chance to know you... My solice today is knowing that you are with your mother in heaven looking down on all of us. As they say, in a better place... Tell your mom to save me a spot in the alto section young one... And I'll see you there too, one sweet day...

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Mia lit a candle

You will be sorely missed my friend.

My condolences to the family, may God bing you closure and Rest in Paradise Ryan...... A pokémon buddy

Your fav Pokémon be with u xx

I'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong with wonderful memories. My condolences.

My condolences on your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain you are going through Ryan was definitely heated on life. Y’all are in our prayers

There are absolutely no words to describe the loss of this incredible young man. He was such a loving and kind soul. He gave the best hugs. I’ll always remember him as that sweet little boy with soft eyes and the sweetest giggles. Praying for peace

My condolences to the family. Sending prayers and hugs.

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In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Marisol Keaton lit a candle

My condolences to you and the family and group, may God bless his soul

I now realize even more how blessed I have been to have taught Ryan while he was in band program at Big Spring ISD. He was a special kind of student to me and there was never a moment that he took for granted in working to be the best role model for the Drumline that he was a part of within the Steer Band. He kept in close contact after he graduated and never failed to put smile on anyone’s face. This news has shattered my heart, but I rejoice in knowing that one day I’ll see Ryan again through the hope of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ. I will forever remember Ryan Fite. Praying for James and Amanda, and all who loved this precious soul. My deepest condolences to you all.

So sorry for your loss. Words cannot convey the sentiment of your loss. You all are in our prayers.

So sorry for your loss

My deepest condolences to the family. Ryan was a great friend and classmate. He never failed to make me smile, even on the worst of days. He’ll never be forgotten.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Anonymous lit a candle

I’m so very sorry beyond words for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May he Rest In Peace.

Im so very sorry for your loss. May the Lord give you that added measure of strength during this time and the days ahead.

Prayers are being lifted for your family. My deepest condolences.

I didn't know my brother too much but he was way too young to pass on. I can only hope that he may rest peacefully with our mom. May he forever stay in our memories and our hearts.

Our sincere condolences to you, Amanda and your family. I am so sorry for your loss and you are in our hearts and prayers. Love Tracy and Jaime

In memory of Ryan Liam Fite, Marissah Edwards lit a candle

My heart is broken. Condolences to all the family. Prayers going up for all of you. It’s now goodbye, but till we meet again 💔🙏🏻✝️

My deepest condolences to your family. Ryan was such a great friend and classmate. He never failed to make me smile, even on the worst of days. He will never be forgotten.

Praying for your family. I’ll miss you Ryan. My heart truly breaks for you, I still can’t believe it’s real..

When you came with Mitch to lunch you seemed like a very funny and great guy.

Rest In Peace and fly high!

James and family I am so sorry to hear about Ryan I know from the bottom of my heart this is the most heartbreaking and painful thing to go through May God Wrap His Loving Arms around your whole family

We are so terribly sorry for your loss. Our hearts hurt! Sending our love and prayers to this family

I am truly sorry for your loss.

Words don't feel adequate, but I'm so sorry for your loss. Ryan was an amazing friend to my boys, Joseph and Matthew.

You will be missed. I love you so much Ryan, I will miss all the times we hung out and everything we shared. Rest easy love

I had the pleasure of being Ryan first supervisor at his first job at the movie theater. I remember a shy and a little frightened young man at first but then he quickly blossomed into a confident and very efficient young man. He has such an amazing soul and we had many moments of laughter over his time with us and after as well. I will remember him always. Its not every day we get to know a star and he was a star that shone the most brightly.

I am so sorry for your loss. Ryan was one of the best kids I knew. Always so kind.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May peace and grace be with you. Love Janet and Jeff Nelson

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.