Gerald “Jake” Wilfred Sikorski III

May 31, 1982 - March 6, 2022

Serenity Memorial Gardens - Midland

Monday 3/14, 2:00 pm

Graveside Service

Gerald Wilfred Sikorski III, Born: 31 May 1982; taken to Heaven on 6 March 2022.

Gerald Wilfred Sikorski III (affectionately called Jake) was born on 31 May 1982 in Glendale, Arizona, the son of Crystal and Gerald. When Jake was 7 years old, he moved to England with his dad Gerald Sikorski Jr. (Jerry) who was in the Air Force. Jake loved living in England, and enjoyed traveling around Europe, especially Italy. Jake was raised in the Christian church and enjoyed youth camps and church activities. In school he excelled in the arts of drawing, painting and sculpture, and his high school sent him on a trip to Italy to study art there. He also traveled in Europe and Italy with his dad and stepmom Pam, and loved the architecture and arts there. After high school he returned to the USA to live with his mother Crystal and to attend college in Midland Texas. Jake became a skilled hot oiler and HAZMAT driver in the Texas oil industry. But recently, he was happiest when he took a job at Sam’s club in Midland Texas so he could hang up his traveling shoes, and put down some roots. Jake had a way with people, facilitated by a great smile, a jolly sense of humor, and a warm bear hug for anyone who needed a friend. When Jake talked to people, he gave them his full attention and listened intently. Friends and coworkers often sought him out for the good advice he gave. Jake was a gifted poet and wrote many beautiful poems. He had a kind word for everyone. He was strong and gentle, and best of all…he loved God. To our great sorrow, Jake smiled his last mortal smile and was taken from us to heaven, while holding his mother’s hand on 6 March 2022 in Midland, Texas following a brief illness. Jake is survived by his parents Crystal Keller of Midland, Texas and Jerry and Pam Sikorski of Box Elder, South Dakota.

Gerald Wilfred Sikorski III, Born: 31 May 1982; taken to Heaven on 6 March 2022. Gerald Wilfred Sikorski III (affectionately called Jake) was born on 31 May 1982 in Glendale, Arizona, the son of Crystal and Gerald. When Jake was 7 years old, he moved to England with his dad Gerald Sikorski Jr. (Jerry)Continue Reading

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In the short time he stayed with us I learn to respect and live him like a son love when he called me pops and our travel to Mexico You will be miss Love you big boy

Jerry, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I remember Thanksgiving 2001, when we all gathered at Kirk and Andrea's house. I had just moved to the UK and didn't know you and Pam yet (I think I had just met you once at church), but as we shared abot our families, it was so clear to me that you really, really loved your son. You showed me the picture of him you carried in your wallet, and I could see what a deep and important place he had in your heart. Please know that I am lifting you all up to the Father right now as you grieve the loss of Jake.

Jake & Pam, Gosh - where to begin. My memories wind back to the beautiful time we shared in Oxford. Jake is slightly older than my older brother and I delighted in trying to interrupt their playtime. Our childhoods, Jake and mine, were before the era of Facebook and the internet. It wasn't until years later that he and I reconnected. Jake was funny, kind, sweet, caring, interesting and interested in others.

I never knew Jake as an adult. My memories are of him attending the church summer camps. It was a joy to have him there. His acceptance of everyone and friendship to all was obvious. He was popular and always fun to be around. He made a difference by being at the camps adding an element of joy and fun. So sorry for the family's loss.

I am so sorry to hear about my brother Jake I just found out. Love you brother may you rest in peace!
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I may write more later but I want to thank everyone who came to the funeral and everyone who posted or write a memory or message. You all have been such a comfort. My email is [email protected], please feel free to reach out.

Dear Crystal and Jerry and Pam, wishing you peace and hoping you find some comfort in knowing how much Jake was loved and admired by those who knew him. My memories of Jake: In January 1991, I visited my brother Jerry and and his son Jake in England at their home at Royal Air Force Greenham Common. Jerry was stationed there as part of the U.S. Air Force. This was my first trip overseas. Jake was 8 years old and liked to draw and knew I liked drawing and comic books. He put a lot of energy and detail into the drawing of a race car and gave me the drawing which I treasure still. Over the years, most of my conversations with Jake were by phone, mostly while on visits to Tucson when my Mom or Dad would say, "Let's call Jake," so we did, sharing the phone with the family on hand. His bright generous spirit, matched with his inquisitive mind and quick wit, made talking with Jake a delight and an adventure, all bundled up in a story he had to tell you just right and right then. Love you and miss you Jake!

In memory of Gerald "Jake" Wilfred Sikorski III, Patricia Mapp lit a candle

Rest in peace.

In memory of Gerald "Jake" Wilfred Sikorski III, Mindy Tyrrell lit a candle

You worked with me doing food demo's for awhile and always gave you chips and dips. You had fun putting the chips artistically on the plate and people would stand and watch you amazed. You were like my third son and walk in the house and go to the fridge. If I had made Monte Cristo sandwiches your eyes would light up. When ever I make them I will think of you. You are loved and will be missed.

We loved Jake very much and was proud to call him our nephew. We will miss his radiant smile, his great big hugs and his great sense of sincerity to all. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of such great loss.

Jake was a good person he would help anyone without thinking twice. He made everyone around him feel seen and included. Jake saw the world in the most beautiful way, we went to Mexico and visited the castle and museums and spent hours just talking about art while trying to interpret what the artist was trying to express. It wasn’t just art but he also wrote wonderful poetry, the way that he used the written word to describe how he’s feeling , even if he couldn’t express it verbally, was beautiful. The world lost a really good person and my prayers go out to his family and I hope that he’s in heaven having one of his long talks with God.

I send my most heartfelt condolences. My Amanda and Jake weren’t far apart in age. I feel your pain of loss. Love, Rhonda (Foote) Knox.

May this candle represent that Jake will always shine bright in your memories and in your heart!

We love you guys so much and are so sorry that Jake has died; We have some wonderful memories of when we were all at Peterborough together🥰 May God bless you with peace to get through this challenging time of your lives🙏🏼

We love you guys.

In memory of Gerald "Jake" Wilfred Sikorski III, Cesar oceja lit a candle

So sorry to hear about Jake. I have fond memories of him in England, he used to play with our son, Josh. You will all be in our prayers in the coming weeks.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.