Dr. Don Curtis McLarey II, M.D.

August 3, 1960 - June 2, 2021

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Nalley-Pickle & Welch Chapel

Friday 6/18, 11:00 am

Nalley-Pickle & Welch Chapel

Friday 6/18, 12:30 pm

Livestream link for services on Friday, June 18, 2021 at 11:00am https://livestream.com/npw/events/9717353

Don Curtis McLarey II, M.D. passed away in his sleep in the early hours of Wednesday, June 2, 2021 at 60 years of age.

Don was born on August 3, 1960 in Nashville, Arkansas. He was a celebrated physician, caring father and devoted follower of Christ.

He was preceded in death by his father, Don Curtis McLarey, M.D., and is survived by his mother, Sandra McLarey Lloyd; step-father, Robert Lloyd; sister, Teresa McLarey-Miller; adopted daughters, Katrina McLarey and Jacinda Magee; step- children Orlando Madrid, Joshua Madrid and Laura Madrid.

Growing up in a musical and medical family, Don and his sister were raised to love music, singing and serving others both state- side and on the mission field.

Don used his stature to his advantage in high school football, ranking as an All District Lineman on both Offense and Defense. He was also an excellent baritone placing in both the All District and All Area Choirs for the State of Texas and a lead role in the musical, “Oklahoma”. In fact, his physique, talent and brains won him the title of “Mr. Consolidated” in a male beauty contest. Don was a modest man – even as a teenager – so he was mortified to see the front page of the newspaper with the headline: “The Legs Won It!” alongside a full length picture of him in his swimsuit, but all the girls thought it was great!

After graduating with honors from A&M Consolidated High School, Don played college football at Harding University in Searcy, AR then transferred to Texas A&M in College Station, TX for his pre-med studies. After receiving one of the highest MCAT scores in the nation, he was asked to teach the prep course to show other students how to study for the test. Don became known for his high I.Q., as well as his ability to learn and recall information. You definitely wanted him on your team if you were playing any kind of trivia or numbers game. Who plays 3-D Seduko to relax? Only Don.

While in college, he and his friends formed a singing group called the “DARTS” (Don, Art, Randy and Terry). Don loved playing guitar and singing four-part harmony with his buddies at events, on the road and even at an Aggie football game.

He attended medical school at the University of Texas in San Antonio, and completed his resident training in Internal Medicine at the University of Oklahoma Health Science Center in Tulsa, OK.

In 1991 he opened his practice in Carlsbad, NM at the McLarey Medical Center with his father who was a Head and Neck Surgeon along with his mother, sister and brother-in-law who were all R.N.s. He also served as Chief of Staff at the Carlsbad Medical Center.

He moved to Midland, TX in 1997 where he initially worked with Midland FamilyMed, and then with Home Hospice as their region Medical Director. He also served on the Associate Clinical Faculty of the Texas Tech University School of Medicine.

Dr. McLarey was the recipient of numerous awards, honors and recognitions for his medical contributions including the 2010 Hospice Director of the Year for the State of Texas.

He was never without a “pun” or corny joke. He was a walking encyclopedia – especially on the subjects of music and medicine. He was a gentle giant who could bring levity to the heaviest atmosphere, peace and order to chaos and comfort to the suffering. His generous spirit and caring demeanor endeared him to his patients, their families and all who knew him.

The family will be having a Come & Go Reception, Saturday – June 19, 2021 from 10:00am – 12:00pm at New Song Christian Fellowship; 1105 N. Pate Street, Carlsbad, New Mexico.

IN LIEU of flowers, donations can be made to the Christian Medical & Dental Society to support medical missions. https://give.cmda.org/CSiDonate/Give.aspx/1ZKZDQZI#c

Nalley-Pickle & Welch Chapel

Friday 6/18, 11:00 am

Nalley-Pickle & Welch Chapel

Friday 6/18, 12:30 pm

Livestream link for services on Friday, June 18, 2021 at 11:00am https://livestream.com/npw/events/9717353 Don Curtis McLarey II, M.D. passed away in his sleep in the early hours of Wednesday, June 2, 2021 at 60 years of age. Don was born on August 3, 1960 in Nashville, Arkansas. He was a celebrated physician, caring fatherContinue Reading

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My dear son, Don, Where did the time go? Moments and years have passed passed at a very fast speed. It saddens me because the part of my life with you here on earth is over. What a great loss! Yet, I feel happiness and pride because you, my son, toughed it out through the rough, trying and overwhelming times and emerged with victory in so many areas of your life. The memories have sweetened through the years and now bring laughter, delight and warmness of heart to me, along with tears to my eyes. Rest in peace, my son. If you could look into my heart, you would see that you have fulfilled my life in many ways that no other person could I will never forget your robust laugh and your caring attitude. Rest in peace, my son. Love, Mom

Such a gift to have met Dr. McLarey. He was my father-in-law's Hospice doctor and came very late one night and sat with our family in the hospital. He was obviously tired at the end of his long day and yet he was in no hurry, answering all our questions and even shared some of his amazing life experiences. What a magnificent, compassionate, and devoted man; we adored and appreciated every minute we spent with him. Condolences to the family and friends.

Thinking of you with sorrow, prayers, and so much love!! Praising the Lord for leading Don home with no more pain. We love you!!

Please accept my deepest condolences. I know that Don will be missed dearly. I often think of my time at the McLarey clinic . Don had a special connection with his patients.

Don will be remembered as a beloved son, brother, friend, and physician. He brought humor, light, life, and music with him bringing about smiles to so many!

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

My cousin Don was like a big brother to me. As a child growing up I spent many family vacations 6in Aunt Sandy and Uncle Butch's home with my parents and without. Teresa (Teedee) and I were close in age and Don was the cool big cuz. He exposed me to me comics of course, especially Spidey. But also awesome music. He was the kind and gentle giant with a strong presence. I always felt safe and loved and protected by him and the whole family. It was like a second home. When I grew up I found out that he and my brother Danny didn't want me at Don's 10th birthday party because I was the annoying who won a lot of the games.😏🙄😎😂. I never but I've never felt anything but love from. He was awesome and he's going to be greatly missed and I'm so glad I had some conversations with him before he left but I'm so sad that I won't have more but one day soon. Miss you my cousin , Juju

Praying for the family.

In memory of Dr. Don Curtis McLarey II, M.D., Len & Patty Brown lit a candle

Dr. McClary was one physician who I can honestly say was a" blast of fun." I worked in ICU at Midland Health for many years and loved when he came for rounds. How he remembered all his jokes (one before he started rounding and one as he left the unit) I will never know, but always loved hearing them! He always made us laugh, even when we were drowning in critical situations and challenges. It is with admiration that I send my condolences to the family and anyone else who knew him. There are very few times in life when one person impacts your life in such a way that you can remember them with fondness, and he was that kind of person you want to remember with a smile. May God Bless him. May the family be blessed through your grieving journey.

Love and prayers to you all

Love and prayers are with you Don will be remembered forever

I worked with Dr. McLarey at Home Hospice for many years. He loved to tell corny jokes, was a very caring and compassionate doctor and did many good things for his patients. I will surely miss him. God bless him and your family!

I met Don in the fall of 1980 and he was one of my first and best friends at A&M. We shared a love of music and funny stories. He convinced me to join a little singing group (The DARTS) and we had a grand time traveling around for concerts. Even a few shows out of town. In every circumstance Don was a gentle leader, and a great musician. He was easily the best of us, but always spoke with kindness and with consideration for others. You would not know his intelligence at first, he was just a good ol feller from some small town who loved his corny puns. We saw each other less after college, but each reunion was a lift to my heart. When my mom got diagnosed with late stage lung cancer, He was there with his gentle, clear, direct words of wisdom. I still channel Don, I use his words for her when I sit with people who are in crisis. I could go on and on and on about his thoughtfulness for others. It is hard to image him gone. I am glad for him, so sad for us... Because we are without hm for a while.

My brother, my friend, my life-long friend. Next to Mom, I was your biggest fan! I've never lived without you in my world so this is going to be a strange and difficult transition. I hope you know how loved you were. Thank you for allowing me to serve you for the past 5 years. It wasn't always easy and we didn't always get along but our love was steady through it all & I wouldn't trade our time together for anything. I will miss your voice, your random facts, your wise insights and watching all those great youtube clips with you. Most of all - I'll miss your laugh, your smile and your huge bear hugs. There's never be another like you. So proud to be your little sister. I'll never stop missing you. Love you my Dandy Don! Teresa aka Tere aka TeeDee aka "Number One" (as in "make it so, number one" from star trek:) I won't let your story die.

My husband said that Dr. McClarey explained things so well. My husband never said that about another Dr. and he went to many! I do remember he took time with my husband, which is precious!

We are sending our deepest condolences and prayers to Sandy, Bob, Theresa, and James. Don was as warm, wonderful, and kind spirit. May our Lord grant him his peaceful eternal rest.

You will be greatly missed cousin! Love you! See ya later, Chrispin

Dr. McLarey was, as his father was as well, a wonderful physician. When I worked at Carlsbad Medical Center, he was one of the most liked and popular physicians. Not only was he known as a good diagnostician but was also such a kind and caring man, so loved by patients and staff. My condolences to the family and prayers for comfort in these difficult times. We will see him in Heaven! 🙏🏻

I was quite shaken to hear of Don's passing. He was not a life long part of my life, but, was a huge part when I needed him. He took care of my mother just prior to her death, then I became a member of Grace Outreach and he took care of me there and while I was working at the hospital in medical records when I needed it. My thoughts and prayers go out to all your family with much love.

Don was always a sweet gentlemen. I appreciated the way he was so kind and how his eyes lit up when he smiled.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

Bennie and I send our condolences to Don’s family! I just loved this man. He was my Doctor during his time in Carlsbad NM! So compassionate and gentle! He was loved by everyone who knew him! He will always be remembered! He is deeply missed!!

I’m so sorry for the loss of this wonderful Christian man. He will be missed

My deepest condolences and prayers for his family during their time of loss. 🙏❤️ Gone but never forgotten

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